INDAWO ENCANE YOKUQALA
Qopha kuqala. Nquma kamuva.
Gcina leli khasi livuliwe eduze komsebenzi wakho. Uma kuvela umcabango ophambukayo, bhala umugqa omfushane uwubeke eceleni. Ngemva kwesikhathi sokugxila, buyekeza umugqa ngamunye: wugcine njengenothi, khetha ukuthi uzowenza kamuva bese wengeza isinyathelo esilandelayo esicacile, noma uwususe.
Lokhu kusekelwe kuphi
Ubufakazi obungaqondile: U-Masicampo no-Baumeister (2011, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology) bathola ocwaningweni ukuthi ukwenza izinhlelo eziqondile zezinhloso ezingakaqedwa kunganciphisa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo ezikubangelayo. Abazange balihlole leli phedi. Ukubhala nje umcabango phansi akufani nokwenza uhlelo, futhi akukho sithembiso sokuthi ukugxila kuzothuthuka.
Izimpendulo ezimbalwa eziwusizo
Yini okufanele ngiyibhale lapha?
Noma yini ofuna ukuyikhumbula ngaphandle kokuyilandela njengamanje: umbuzo, umsebenzi okufanele uwenze noma umbono. Kugcine kufushane. Lena incwajana, ayilona uhlelo lokuphatha imisebenzi noma indlela yokwelapha.
Ngingalubuyekeza kuphi uhlu?
Khetha u-'Buyekeza imicabango' uma isikhathi sakho sokugxila sesiphelile. U-'Gcina' ushiya into njengenothi. U-'Yenza kamuva' uyimaka ukuze ubhale isinyathelo esilandelayo emgqeni. U-'Susa' uyayisusa, kodwa ungakuhlehlisa kuze kususwe enye into noma kulayishwe kabusha ikhasi.