MALO ANG’ONO OYAMBIRAPO
Lembani kaye. Sankhani zoti muchite pambuyo pake.
Siyani tsambali lotseguka pafupi ndi ntchito yanu. Ganizo longobwera likakufikani, lembani mzere waufupi ndipo likeni pambali. Mukamaliza nthawi yanu yogwira ntchito, werenganinso mzere uliwonse: lisungeni ngati cholemba, sankhani kuti mudzachita pambuyo pake ndi kuwonjezera sitepe yeniyeni, kapena lichotseni.
Zimene izi zakhazikitsidwa pa izo
Umboni wosathandiza mwachindunji: Masicampo ndi Baumeister (2011, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology) anapeza m’mayesero kuti kukonza mapulani enieni a zolinga zomwe sizinamalizidwe kungachepetse mmene zimasokonezera maganizo. Sanayese pepalali. Kungolemba ganizo sikufanana ndi kupanga pulani, ndipo sitikulonjeza kuti kuika maganizo pa ntchito kudzayenda bwino.
Mayankho angapo othandiza
Ndilembepo chiyani?
Chilichonse chimene mukufuna kukumbukira koma simukufuna kuchitsatira panopa: funso, ntchito yoti mukachite kapena ganizo. Lembani mwachidule. Ili ndi buku lolembera, osati dongosolo loyendetsera ntchito kapena chithandizo.
Kodi ndingawerenge kuti mndandandawu?
Nthawi yanu yogwira ntchito ikatha, sankhani Werenganinso maganizo. Kusunga kumasiya chinthucho ngati cholemba. Kuchita pambuyo pake kumalemba kuti muchite sitepe yotsatira imene mungalembe pamzerewo. Kuchotsa kumachichotsa, ndipo mungasinthe chisankhocho mpaka mutachotsanso china kapena kutsegulanso tsambalo.