INDZAWO LENCANE YEKUCALA
Cala ngekuwubhala. Nquma emuva kwaloko.
Gcina lelikhasi lisedvute nemsebenti wakho. Uma kuvela umcabango lophazamisako, bhala umugca lomfisha uwubeke eceleni. Nase kuphelile sikhatsi sekunaka, buyeketa umugca ngamunye: wugcine njengenothi, ukhetse kutsi utowenta kamuva bese wengeza sinyatselo lesilandzelako lesicacile, noma uwususe.
Lokusekelwe kuko
Lusekelo lolungakacondzi: Masicampo naBaumeister (2011, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology) batfola etivivinyweni kutsi kwenta emasu lacacile etinjongo letingakapheli kunganciphisa kuphazamiseka kwemicabango. Abazange balivivinye leli khasi. Kumane ubhale umcabango akufani nekubeka lisu, futsi akuketsembiswa kutsi kunaka kutawutfutfuka.
Timphendvulo letimbalwa letilusito
Yini lengingayibhala lapha?
Noma yini lofuna kuyikhumbula ungayilandzeli nyalo: umbuto, umsebenti wekuyowenta noma umcondvo. Yigcine imfisha. Leli likhasi lekubhala, akusilo luhlelo lwekulawula imisebenti noma indlela yekwelapha.
Ngingalubuyeketa kuphi luhlu?
Khetsa Buyeketa imicabango nase kuphelile sikhatsi sakho sekunaka. Kugcina kushiya intfo njengenothi. Kutsi Utawukwenta kamuva kuyibeka kutsi uyente sinyatselo lesilandzelako longasibhalela emgceni. Kuyisusa kuyayisusa; ungahlehlisa kuze kususwe lokunye noma uphindze ulayishe likhasi.